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28Feb/102

Headbutting as a Conversation Starter

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Tonight was my turn to put Margaret to bed.  She was upset about going, so I tried to soothe her by singing a little bit when we got in the bedroom.  A little singing turned into a lot of singing.  It became apparent after a while that she was making no serious effort to go to sleep.  So I started reminding her that it was time to go to sleep, using a firm voice.  In response, she butted her head towards mine, not quite making contact.  She started to butt again, so I rested my arm over my forehead to act as a buffer.  She made contact 3 or 4 times in rapid succession, the first one being soft, and each subsequent one a little harder.  When she was finally satisfied that she'd butted me w/ the correct amount of pressure, she said "I sorry.  I sorry, Daddy.  Are OK?  Be careful.  Be careful, Daddy."

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20Feb/102

Bare Feet! Bare Feet! Bare Feet!

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I kinda rolled my eyes when Liz first showed me a picture of the Vibram 5 Fingers she wanted to buy.  This was back in October.  I knew nothing of barefoot running at the time, and my only thought was that she wanted some crazy looking shoes.  Before her pair arrived, she started showing me some articles on the benefits of barefoot, or minimal shoe running.  By the time her shoes arrived, I thought of them as a running shoe rather than a fashion statement.  My curiosity was piqued.  After I had a chance to see them and touch them, I knew I'd end up with a pair sooner or later.  Thanks to Liz's generous planning, I had them sooner as an early Christmas present.  I believe we got them the weekend after thanksgiving.

So w/ my vibrams on my feet, I was ready to get back into running.  I knew I was going to have to take it easy and give my feet and calves a chance to accommodate to a type of activity I'd protected them from for most of my life.  I started with short runs to the end of the street and back, and would wake up with sore calves and feet the next morning.  But it was a good sore, not at all like an injury.  It was the kind of soreness you get from using muscles more than they're used to.  I gradually progressed to longer and longer runs, until one day I decided I could make the .7 mile lap around our whole neighborhood.  The next morning, I was less sore than my first run to the end of the street and back.  That was probably just before Christmas.  Since then I've been confidently adding distance to my runs, and have gone as much as 4 miles in a single run.  Typically I go between 2 or 3 miles per run.

During that break in process, I'd been doing some reading and watching some videos on true barefoot running.  I remember one guy saying that it would take a runner about 3 months to build up the skin on his feet adequately to run barefoot regularly.  I thought, meh... why would I need to do that?  Running in my Vibrams is just as good from a cardiovascular standpoint.  Why is it even necessary to run fully bare footed?  Some claim that the extra feedback you get through your feet gives a little more benefit as far as your body having enough information to know how to safely run, but it didn't seem like it was a necessity.  At the time, I didn't think I'd have an interest in true  barefoot running.

I took a break (as well as got sick for a little while) just after Christmas, and then resumed my running.  One day, after my run, on an impulse, I decided to take off my Vibrams for my cooldown walk.  While they were off, I decided to try just a short distance of barefoot running.  I ran about 1/2 way down the street, on the sidewalk.   The sensation was not at all what I expected.  Being January, the sidewalk was nice and cool.  The balls of my feet didn't strike the pavement as hard as I expected.  It really was not much different at all from running in my Vibs, except that I could actually feel the cool pavement.  So I started thinking, why not just try it a few more times?  So I started making a habit of finishing my runs barefoot.  Soon half a street became half a block.  Then a whole block.  Wednesday, I ran the .7 miles around our neighborhood fully barefoot.

During this process, the only negative aspect of the experience is that my skin would start to tingle or sting slightly after a certain distance of running.  I'm a very tender footed guy who sits behind a desk all day, and never goes barefoot, even in the house.  So each time I'd feel that stinging sensation, I was sure that I was starting to wear holes in the bottoms of my feet.  So I'd walk the rest of the way home and check things out.  Each time, I'd look at my skin and never saw any abrasions or blisters.  I'd feel the stinging for maybe another 20 or 30 minutes, and then everything went back to normal.

After about 7 or 8 experiences like this, I gained the confidence to know that the stinging didn't mean I was doing any real damage, so today I decided to do a complete run fully barefoot from start to finish.  Liz and Margaret joined me.  We went to Rose Rudman and ran on their paved trail.  I ran a total distance of 2.2 miles.  I didn't spot it, but Liz said that at least 3 or 4 people stared at my feet as I ran by.  Towards the end of the run, I was certainly feeling it.  Nothing too uncomfortable, but I could tell that my skin was enduring some use.  But I tripled my previous barefoot distance, so I expected that it'd be a little worse than normal.  It wasn't too bad, though.  At no point would I say that I was in pain.  I'm typing this about 3 hours after my run, and I can still feel some mild stinging.  Normally this goes away w/in 30 minutes of a run.  Assuming it feels normal by tomorrow morning, I think I'm ready to start running barefoot as close to 100% of the time as I can get from now on.  I'd really like to run the Race for the Cure 5k this May barefoot if they'll let me.  I think by then my skin should be plenty tough to run on the brick streets of Tyler.  At the very least, I'm running it in my Vibrams.

So if you're interested in barefoot running and haven't yet tried going fully barefoot, give it a shot.  You may find that you enjoy it.

20Feb/100

A Marriage of Blogs

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Around the time Margaret was born, Liz and I decided to do all our blogging in one place.  At the time I thought, Oh, one day I'll merge all the content from my original blog, forkmantis.com, into tsuasai.com.  Well, I've finally done it.  As of this moment, we have probably 90% of everything Liz and I ever produced on the web housed in this one site.  Not counting this post, there are 1197 posts dating back to 2002, which is before we were even dating.

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15Feb/100

Margaret singing along w/ the Little Einsteins theme song

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She gets a little distracted mid-way through, but you get the idea.

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14Feb/100

Margaret’s First Real Snow

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7Feb/100

Runkeeper

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I don't have an iPhone, but Liz does, which means that much of the time I do too.  Although she has installed a game or two for me, I have to say that my all time favorite app for it right now is Runkeeper (free version).  Obviously we've really gotten back into running lately, having fully bought in to the barefoot running school of thought.  Runkeeper gives you a lot of information about your running.  You simply turn it on and start it at the beginning of your run, and shut it down at the end of your run.  You can even pause it during your run if you stop for any reason, such as to take a phone call.

Runkeeper is GPS based, so in addition to timing your run, it can also tell you how far you've traveled. It will plot your path onto google maps, tell you how many minutes per mile you're averaging, as well as the total calories you've burned during your run.  Slicker than that, it uploads each recorded run to their website, where you can see charts and graphs of your aggregate data.

We haven't yet subscribed to the full reporting utility ($20 year).  We probably will, ultimately.  We're saving it as a motivational gift for ourselves whenever we need a little more encouragement to keep running.

Speaking of motivational gifts, we have promised ourselves we'd use some of our tax return money so that each of us can get a pair of Vibram Bikilas when they come out in April or May.  However, we've challenged ourselves to have to do a 5 mile run in order to earn them.  We've also challenged ourselves to run a few of the 5k events in East Texas this year, and we're going to try to do a half marathon at some point in 2010.  We'll have to do a little searching to find one that we can participate in.  So far, I've ran 1/3 of a 1/2 marathon, so I'm feeling like it's a fairly realistic goal.  I probably won't be breaking any records, but as this will be my first event larger than a 5k, I'll be happy to complete it in any reasonable time.

1Nov/090

Trick or Treat

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Last night we took Margaret out for her first trick or treating.  Overall she's a happy and social girl, but when new people are around, particularly men, it may take her 15 min or so to warm up to them.  Since trick or treating is almost 100% about new, often costumed, sometimes scary people, we really didn't know what to expect.

The plan was to go trick or treating with our neighbors Tommy and Stephanie.  We got a little impatient waiting on them to get home from their anniversary dinner, so we went ahead and dressed Margaret up in her bumble bee outfit and did a trial run at our other neighbor's house.  We handed her her bucket, and, and waited behind some other kids as the Diemund's handed out candy.  Margaret just kinda stood there, unsure of what was going on.  As the candy went into her bucket, she saw McKennah, and tried to walk in their house.  We had to grab her and explain to her that we'd be going to other houses, and that we weren't going to be staying to play.  We went to one other house while waiting on Tommy and Stephanie.  This time Margaret seemed to know the drill.  She cooperatively carried her bucket to the door, and held it out to receive candy.  She wasn't the least bit timid or shy, much to our pleasure.

Tommy and Stephanie showed up while this was going on, and we waited a few minutes for them to get their kids suited up.  We trick or treated our whole neighborhood with them, and Margaret was just amazingly awesome.  She never fussed at all.  When it was time to go to a new house, she'd grab her bucket and head to the door.  If she was the first one there, she'd even knock.  If she was behind bigger kids, she'd just sidle back and forth looking for a gap so she could get up to the front and get some candy.  Never once did she act afraid or timid of anyone.  She continued to try to go into people's houses, particularly if they had dogs.

When we got home, we dumped her candy on the floor and she spent a solid 15 minutes just picking up each piece and inspecting it.  She played a matching game for a little while where she'd find 2 of the same kinds of candy, and hand them to me.  We let her have a few things, trying to limit the sugar as much as possible.  A big thanks to the folks who gave out pretzels!

The best part about it all is what happened this morning.  I woke up, and laid in bed for a while.  Margaret must have woken up w/o me noticing, apparently still thinking about last night, because the first words I hear out of her mouth, at full volume, are "Trick or Treat"

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15Oct/090

Margaret showing off her complete inventory of skills

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We just tried to get Margaret to demonstrate all of the stuff she knows at ~17 months of age. We cover most of it here, including:

  • Nose picking
  • Some sign language
  • identifying body parts
  • singing Itsy Bitsy Spider (w/ hand motions, and dramatic Eee-Aye-Eee-Aye-Oh finish)
  • Flipping
  • Identifying foods
  • Animal sounds

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25Aug/090

Unh Unh Unh!

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Margaret is to a stage now where she just points at things and says "Unh unh unh!" repeatedly until we give her what she's asking for. Liz and I don't want this stage to last any longer than necessary, so we're teaching her to say or sign "please", "more", or the word for what she's asking for if she knows it, like "water" or "milk", etc. She seems to understand, yet sometimes she's stubborn and resists for a good minute or two before finally breaking down and saying/signing her request. Watching her sign, though, is the cutest thing I can imagine at this stage of my life.

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11Aug/090

A 15 Month Old’s Understanding of Technology

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Margaret has always been interested in technology. Why not. Liz and I love it. She sees it all the time. It's amazing how well she understands it, though. I'm sure you've already seen her unlock the iPhone, which she's been doing since about 12 months.

So we have an Xbox that we originally got watch Netflix streaming content on our TV.  Once we got it, we accidentally got hooked on Call of Duty 4.  So Margaret sees us playing games on occasion, as well as watching some kid shows on netflix.  The one she likes the most has a CG dog on the cover, which she refers to by saying "puppy".  She'll say it either as a request, or just as a statement of fact.

So the other day, she walked into the living room while I was playing CoD.  She immediately, and cheerfully blurts out "Puppy!"  I'm 100% sure that this means she recognizes that both CoD and puppy are housed on the same device.  Maybe because she recognizes the main xbox menu, and knows it can lead to either CoD or puppy, or maybe because we have the controller in our hand for both.  Either way, it's just impressive to me that she's about to connect all the little dots and know that CoD means puppy, where a Little Einstein dvd would not.

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