Focus
The following transcript is representative of a whole series of conversations we've had w/ Margaret lately (where $donut can represent any item Margaret wants).
Margaret: Want $donut
Mommy and/or Daddy: $negativeResponse
Margaret: Want $donut
Mommy and/or Daddy: $reasonOne
Margaret: Want $donut
Mommy and/or Daddy: $reasonTwo
Margaret: Want $donut
Mommy and/or Daddy: $explanation
Margaret: Want $donut
Mommy and/or Daddy: $redirectionAttempt
Margaret: Want $donut
Mommy and/or Daddy: OK.
Take it From Me, Parents Just Don’t Understand
We've been working semi-casually towards potty training Margaret. It's really been us that have been dropping the ball by not being consistent. Still, every time we have to drop $20-$30 for a new package of pullups, our motivation gets renewed. We have progressed to the point where M will gladly perform her duties on the potty, providing that you prompt her to do so by taking her there. She's not yet to the point of telling you that she needs to go. So unless we diligently take her every 30 minutes or so, we end up changing wet diapers. For the last few days, every time we change a wet diaper, we ask her "Why didn't you tell us you needed to go potty? We would have taken you to the potty and you could have gotten an M&M!"
Last night, while Liz was cooking, M came into the kitchen, clad only in a diaper, and said "Want diaper! Want diaper!" She then took off her diaper, and peed on the floor right in front of Liz. Liz wasn't 100% sure what to think of it. 30 minutes later, Margaret does the same thing, coming into the kitchen saying "Want diaper! Want diaper!". I was there this time, and I replied "You already have a diaper." She ripped it off, and peed right on the floor in front of me.
We discussed it a bit, and determined that, considering our recent requests for her to tell us when she needed to go, and the fact that she did the same thing twice in a row, that she was saying "Want diaper" as short for "I want this diaper off of me so I can go pee pee in the potty and get an M&M."
Headbutting as a Conversation Starter
Tonight was my turn to put Margaret to bed. She was upset about going, so I tried to soothe her by singing a little bit when we got in the bedroom. A little singing turned into a lot of singing. It became apparent after a while that she was making no serious effort to go to sleep. So I started reminding her that it was time to go to sleep, using a firm voice. In response, she butted her head towards mine, not quite making contact. She started to butt again, so I rested my arm over my forehead to act as a buffer. She made contact 3 or 4 times in rapid succession, the first one being soft, and each subsequent one a little harder. When she was finally satisfied that she'd butted me w/ the correct amount of pressure, she said "I sorry. I sorry, Daddy. Are OK? Be careful. Be careful, Daddy."
SwagBucks Birthday!
So I have pretty much wasted the day away looking for swagcodes. But I am pretty excited to be getting my first amazon gift cards soon. So quick little plug if you don't use swag bucks and want to sign up under us. All you do is search though it rather than google. Every once in a while I will still use google. But it does a good job and I get points to get free stuff. As you can see I only have two referrals. You don't have to get friends to sign up to do this site and get stuff like a lot of "free stuff sites." My referral link is http://www.swagbucks.com/refer/TsuaSai
Currently this month we will be get $43 bucks in amazon gift cards from me doing this site and another which is sunnysidecash which I don't recommend. I will have $15 bucks already saved for next month on swag bucks. Since amazon gift cards stack you could save them for pretty much anything you want. I have a friend saving all her to buy Christmas gifts with.
A Marriage of Blogs
Around the time Margaret was born, Liz and I decided to do all our blogging in one place. At the time I thought, Oh, one day I'll merge all the content from my original blog, forkmantis.com, into tsuasai.com. Well, I've finally done it. As of this moment, we have probably 90% of everything Liz and I ever produced on the web housed in this one site. Not counting this post, there are 1197 posts dating back to 2002, which is before we were even dating.
Margaret singing along w/ the Little Einsteins theme song
She gets a little distracted mid-way through, but you get the idea.
Farm house table is complete!
My table is finally done and I can say I did 99.9% of it by myself. Will helped with cutting the 2x12 and the first coat of stain. My hands show a few dings but its worth it. I want to say another thanks to http://knockoffwood.blogspot.com/ it is truly an amazing site and I would never had a table this nice without this site and free plans. I do want to say I added a few extra things to the table plans and I messed a few things up from the plans. Also I spent around $130 start to finish. I wanted to add what I had add in case anyone stumbles onto this blog post building the same thing.
First thing is I am going to add are some triangle brackets. Not in just yet cause I just finally finished the stain and varnish. This table is very very stable and really doesn't "need" these but with an almost two year old that climbs everything I thought more the better. I will also be adding these to the benches since they will be getting moved in and out a lot.
The second thing I added was some little felt sliders. Our floors are not tile and are pretty cheap. The wood is pretty heavy and I didn't want to mess up the floors. I am not ready for that project just yet. You can get these really cheap at almost any store and I used two per 2x6 so they would also be level. You can buy just felt you can just slick to the bottom but I wasn't sure how long that would last so I got the plastic feet that have a nail sticking out so you can secure it to the bottom of the leg.
Lastly is just a picture of the table top. This is probably the part I am most proud of. I spend a lot of time making sure I got the top perfectly level so no plates or dishes anywhere on the table would ever wobble.
One tool I used that was not a recommend tool was a chalk line. I wanted my holes to be perfectly inline and I couldn't have eyeballed it well enough. So that made my job much easier. I also drilled all my boards not skipping the three in the middle and flipping the table. So I have a few extra holes filled in my table but nothing to bad. I went every other 2x2 on the supports up under for drilling the top in. So I don't have all 180 screws seems like skipping every other one is also fine. At the end of the day I was tired and took the easy way out on that one. But there is still over 90 screws in the top so I don't think its going anywhere.
Margaret’s First Real Snow
One Step Closer on Table
This weekend I have been able to make very good progress on the table. This evening we will be moving it indoors for the final coat of stain/sealer. I started in the garage not knowing how the smell would be but it wasn't bad. I have put two coats on so far and plan to stop after three assuming it looks and feels the way I want. After the first coat it didn't feel like it sealed at all but I used a low grit sand paper in order to get a darker stain. So I think it wood just absorbed the stain. I ended up going with a a Polyshades Bombay Mahogany stain/sealer it was an all in one. So far applying it has been much easier than the post I read online. However the second coat was a little harder than the first, not sure what to expect out of the third. Its a much redder shade than the store or can show. But we are both really liking the color. Not the picture but both benches are done. I hope to be posting a fully completed with it set up in our kitchen picture tomorrow.