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11Apr/100

Focus

Posted by forkmantis

The following transcript is representative of a whole series of conversations we've had w/ Margaret lately (where $donut can represent any item Margaret wants).

Margaret: Want $donut

Mommy and/or Daddy: $negativeResponse

Margaret: Want $donut

Mommy and/or Daddy: $reasonOne

Margaret: Want $donut

Mommy and/or Daddy: $reasonTwo

Margaret: Want $donut

Mommy and/or Daddy: $explanation

Margaret: Want $donut

Mommy and/or Daddy: $redirectionAttempt

Margaret: Want $donut

Mommy and/or Daddy: OK.

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29Mar/100

Take it From Me, Parents Just Don’t Understand

Posted by forkmantis

We've been working semi-casually towards potty training Margaret.  It's really been us that have been dropping the ball by not being consistent.  Still, every time we have to drop $20-$30 for a new package of pullups, our motivation gets renewed.  We have progressed to the point where M will gladly perform her duties on the potty, providing that you prompt her to do so by taking her there.  She's not yet to the point of telling you that she needs to go.  So unless we diligently take her every 30 minutes or so, we end up changing wet diapers.  For the last few days, every time we change a wet diaper, we ask her "Why didn't you tell us you needed to go potty?  We would have taken you to the potty and you could have gotten an M&M!"

Last night, while Liz was cooking, M came into the kitchen, clad only in a diaper, and said "Want diaper! Want diaper!"  She then took off her diaper, and peed on the floor right in front of Liz.  Liz wasn't 100% sure what to think of it.  30 minutes later, Margaret does the same thing, coming into the kitchen saying "Want diaper! Want diaper!".  I was there this time, and I replied "You already have a diaper."  She ripped it off, and peed right on the floor in front of me.

We discussed it a bit, and determined that, considering our recent requests for her to tell us when she needed to go, and the fact that she did the same thing twice in a row, that she was saying "Want diaper" as short for "I want this diaper off of me so I can go pee pee in the potty and get an M&M."

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28Feb/102

Headbutting as a Conversation Starter

Posted by forkmantis

Tonight was my turn to put Margaret to bed.  She was upset about going, so I tried to soothe her by singing a little bit when we got in the bedroom.  A little singing turned into a lot of singing.  It became apparent after a while that she was making no serious effort to go to sleep.  So I started reminding her that it was time to go to sleep, using a firm voice.  In response, she butted her head towards mine, not quite making contact.  She started to butt again, so I rested my arm over my forehead to act as a buffer.  She made contact 3 or 4 times in rapid succession, the first one being soft, and each subsequent one a little harder.  When she was finally satisfied that she'd butted me w/ the correct amount of pressure, she said "I sorry.  I sorry, Daddy.  Are OK?  Be careful.  Be careful, Daddy."

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25Feb/100

SwagBucks Birthday!

Posted by Liz

So I have pretty much wasted the day away looking for swagcodes. But I am pretty excited to be getting my first amazon gift cards soon. So quick little plug if you don't use swag bucks and want to sign up under us. All you do is search though it rather than google. Every once in a while I will still use google. But it does a good job and I get points to get free stuff. As you can see I only have two referrals. You don't have to get friends to sign up to do this site and get stuff like a lot of "free stuff sites." My referral link is http://www.swagbucks.com/refer/TsuaSai

Currently this month we will be get $43 bucks in amazon gift cards from me doing this site and another which is sunnysidecash which I don't recommend. I will have $15 bucks already saved for next month on swag bucks. Since amazon gift cards stack you could save them for pretty much anything you want. I have a friend saving all her to buy Christmas gifts with.

20Feb/102

Bare Feet! Bare Feet! Bare Feet!

Posted by forkmantis

I kinda rolled my eyes when Liz first showed me a picture of the Vibram 5 Fingers she wanted to buy.  This was back in October.  I knew nothing of barefoot running at the time, and my only thought was that she wanted some crazy looking shoes.  Before her pair arrived, she started showing me some articles on the benefits of barefoot, or minimal shoe running.  By the time her shoes arrived, I thought of them as a running shoe rather than a fashion statement.  My curiosity was piqued.  After I had a chance to see them and touch them, I knew I'd end up with a pair sooner or later.  Thanks to Liz's generous planning, I had them sooner as an early Christmas present.  I believe we got them the weekend after thanksgiving.

So w/ my vibrams on my feet, I was ready to get back into running.  I knew I was going to have to take it easy and give my feet and calves a chance to accommodate to a type of activity I'd protected them from for most of my life.  I started with short runs to the end of the street and back, and would wake up with sore calves and feet the next morning.  But it was a good sore, not at all like an injury.  It was the kind of soreness you get from using muscles more than they're used to.  I gradually progressed to longer and longer runs, until one day I decided I could make the .7 mile lap around our whole neighborhood.  The next morning, I was less sore than my first run to the end of the street and back.  That was probably just before Christmas.  Since then I've been confidently adding distance to my runs, and have gone as much as 4 miles in a single run.  Typically I go between 2 or 3 miles per run.

During that break in process, I'd been doing some reading and watching some videos on true barefoot running.  I remember one guy saying that it would take a runner about 3 months to build up the skin on his feet adequately to run barefoot regularly.  I thought, meh... why would I need to do that?  Running in my Vibrams is just as good from a cardiovascular standpoint.  Why is it even necessary to run fully bare footed?  Some claim that the extra feedback you get through your feet gives a little more benefit as far as your body having enough information to know how to safely run, but it didn't seem like it was a necessity.  At the time, I didn't think I'd have an interest in true  barefoot running.

I took a break (as well as got sick for a little while) just after Christmas, and then resumed my running.  One day, after my run, on an impulse, I decided to take off my Vibrams for my cooldown walk.  While they were off, I decided to try just a short distance of barefoot running.  I ran about 1/2 way down the street, on the sidewalk.   The sensation was not at all what I expected.  Being January, the sidewalk was nice and cool.  The balls of my feet didn't strike the pavement as hard as I expected.  It really was not much different at all from running in my Vibs, except that I could actually feel the cool pavement.  So I started thinking, why not just try it a few more times?  So I started making a habit of finishing my runs barefoot.  Soon half a street became half a block.  Then a whole block.  Wednesday, I ran the .7 miles around our neighborhood fully barefoot.

During this process, the only negative aspect of the experience is that my skin would start to tingle or sting slightly after a certain distance of running.  I'm a very tender footed guy who sits behind a desk all day, and never goes barefoot, even in the house.  So each time I'd feel that stinging sensation, I was sure that I was starting to wear holes in the bottoms of my feet.  So I'd walk the rest of the way home and check things out.  Each time, I'd look at my skin and never saw any abrasions or blisters.  I'd feel the stinging for maybe another 20 or 30 minutes, and then everything went back to normal.

After about 7 or 8 experiences like this, I gained the confidence to know that the stinging didn't mean I was doing any real damage, so today I decided to do a complete run fully barefoot from start to finish.  Liz and Margaret joined me.  We went to Rose Rudman and ran on their paved trail.  I ran a total distance of 2.2 miles.  I didn't spot it, but Liz said that at least 3 or 4 people stared at my feet as I ran by.  Towards the end of the run, I was certainly feeling it.  Nothing too uncomfortable, but I could tell that my skin was enduring some use.  But I tripled my previous barefoot distance, so I expected that it'd be a little worse than normal.  It wasn't too bad, though.  At no point would I say that I was in pain.  I'm typing this about 3 hours after my run, and I can still feel some mild stinging.  Normally this goes away w/in 30 minutes of a run.  Assuming it feels normal by tomorrow morning, I think I'm ready to start running barefoot as close to 100% of the time as I can get from now on.  I'd really like to run the Race for the Cure 5k this May barefoot if they'll let me.  I think by then my skin should be plenty tough to run on the brick streets of Tyler.  At the very least, I'm running it in my Vibrams.

So if you're interested in barefoot running and haven't yet tried going fully barefoot, give it a shot.  You may find that you enjoy it.

20Feb/100

A Marriage of Blogs

Posted by forkmantis

Around the time Margaret was born, Liz and I decided to do all our blogging in one place.  At the time I thought, Oh, one day I'll merge all the content from my original blog, forkmantis.com, into tsuasai.com.  Well, I've finally done it.  As of this moment, we have probably 90% of everything Liz and I ever produced on the web housed in this one site.  Not counting this post, there are 1197 posts dating back to 2002, which is before we were even dating.

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15Feb/100

Margaret singing along w/ the Little Einsteins theme song

Posted by forkmantis

She gets a little distracted mid-way through, but you get the idea.

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15Feb/102

Farm house table is complete!

Posted by Liz

My table is finally done and I can say I did 99.9% of it by myself. Will helped with cutting the 2x12 and the first coat of stain.  My hands show a few dings but its worth it.  I want to say another thanks to http://knockoffwood.blogspot.com/ it is truly an amazing site and I would never had a table this nice without this site and free plans. I do want to say I added a few extra things to the table plans and I messed a few things up from the plans. Also I spent around $130 start to finish. I wanted to add what I had add in case anyone stumbles onto this blog post building the same thing.

First thing is I am going to add are some triangle brackets. Not in just yet cause I just finally finished the stain and varnish.  This table is very very stable and really doesn't "need" these but with an almost two year old that climbs everything I thought more the better.  I will also be adding these to the benches since they will be getting moved in and out a lot.

The second thing I added was some little felt sliders. Our floors are not tile and are pretty cheap. The wood is pretty heavy and I didn't want to mess up the floors. I am not ready for that project just yet. You can get these really cheap at almost any store and I used two per 2x6 so they would also be level.  You can buy just felt you can just slick to the bottom but I wasn't sure how long that would last so I got the plastic feet that have a nail sticking out so you can secure it to the bottom of the leg.

Lastly is just a picture of the table top. This is probably the part I am most proud of. I spend a lot of time making sure I got the top perfectly level so no plates or dishes anywhere on the table would ever wobble.

One tool I used that was not a recommend tool was a chalk line. I wanted my holes to be perfectly inline and I couldn't have eyeballed it well enough. So that made my job much easier. I also drilled all my boards not skipping the three in the middle and flipping the table. So I have a few extra holes filled in my table but nothing to bad.  I went every other 2x2 on the supports up under for drilling the top in. So I don't have all 180 screws seems like skipping every other one is also fine. At the end of the day I was tired and took the easy way out on that one. But there is still over 90 screws in the top so I don't think its going anywhere.

Here is day one with the table.

Day four I think it was...

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14Feb/100

Margaret’s First Real Snow

Posted by forkmantis

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14Feb/100

One Step Closer on Table

Posted by Liz

This weekend I have been able to make very good progress on the table. This evening we will be moving it indoors for the final coat of stain/sealer. I started in the garage not knowing how the smell would be but it wasn't bad. I have put two coats on so far and plan to stop after three assuming it looks and feels the way I want. After the first coat it didn't feel like it sealed at all but I used a low grit sand paper in order to get a darker stain. So I think it wood just absorbed the stain.  I ended up going with a a Polyshades Bombay Mahogany stain/sealer it was an all in one. So far applying it has been much easier than the post I read online. However the second coat was a little harder than the first, not sure what to expect out of the third.  Its a much redder shade than the store or can show. But we are both really liking the color.  Not the picture but both benches are done. I hope to be posting a fully completed with it set up in our kitchen picture tomorrow.

Here is day one on the table.

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